Selectively Social Is NOT Antisocial. 

I remember having a conversation with a guy I’d been in the same class with for 2years. I knew all his names, nick names, I could tell he was the one talking without even looking and I knew almost all his clothes. I had never spoken to him. He was one of those students who…

CYBERBULLYING: Understanding The Victim.

Hello people of the blogosphere! I am very sorry for not putting up a post last wednesday as scheduled. I had an impromptu interview in another state and have been travelling a lot to submit applications here and there. Trust me, there are a lot of blog post ideas from my interview and travels that…

Flying Words||What Am I Doing Or Not Doing?

Guys, I am confused right now. I always draft out posts and edit them when ever the spirit leads. In less than 24hours, I have lost 2 blog posts. The first one wasn’t too annoying because it was far from finish The second one was lost barely minutes ago and it makes me want to…

22 Things I Wish I Knew Before Starting My Blog.

It is super easy to start a blog here on WordPress. It takes under 30minutes and you are proudly a blog owner and excitedly typing your first blog post. Except you are like me then it will take you a week to come up with one. After publishing your first post, you’ll feel a sense…

Fear Of The Future

Good day everyone, let me ramble for some minutes. I recently got my licence to practice almost 9 months after finishing my degree exams and it was liberating. I received a lot of congratulatory messages and compliments which felt nice but, beneath the happy face full of makeup as I took the oath that day,…

What Really Matters? Love Or Genotype? 

Sometime last month, a very sick looking 8 year old boy came to the lab to have his sample taken and some tests run. He caught my attention because I expected him to wail and fight the technician like other children. But he was quiet and showed no signs of fear or pain. Everyone kept…

Awards Festival- 03/2018

Hi guys! This month I got nominated for 2 awards. My first mystery blogger award and my second versatile blogger award😎. Incase you haven’t noticed, I now do award posts once a month so please know that I will surely respond to your award nomination. It would just be towards the end of the month…

Give Yourself Permission To Be Your Own Kind Of Blogger. 

In a colony of social insects like ants, termites or bees they play different roles as workers, reproducers, soldiers, the queen etc. In order to have a stable colony. In the same vein, as humans we have job descriptions which makes our community stable- the soldiers, medical personnels, factory workers etc. And it is the…

Quad F3: War Without End.

In the late 1930’s, a young girl named Pefesa from a village called Saganu journeyed with her grandmother who was inflicted with an unknown illness to Dipra a far away village for herbal treatment which lasted many moons. Although she was already betrothed, she had jumped at the opportunity to care for her grandmother because there…

He Touched Me With His Shit Hand.

I went to benin to shop for my induction. I had asked Osama to accompany me to the market because she knew the place. Osama is my classmate turned church member, turned roommate, turned friend, turned flat mate, turned colleague. We have too much history together.  She texted me the directions and adviced me to…

You Were Not Pressed. What You Experienced Is Called Sleep Paralysis.

So up until recently, I didn’t know they was something called sleep paralysis. For those of you that don’t know; Sleep paralysis occurs when a person wakes up but finds themselves unable to move or speak. It is accompanied with the thought that someone is in the room watching or hearing them. They might feel…